You have to be uncomfortable to achieve what you wishfully think about. First of all, that sorrowful mentality and remaining stuck on the past of the ‘horrible’ things that have happened to you, you gotta cut that out immediately and focus back to the NOW! What I’m about to say may be a hard pill to swallow, but you’re reading this post from one who looked for pity due to her unfortunate events.
Last year, at the beginning of 2022 I encountered what I believe was the scariest night of my life, I mean we’re talking about a life-and-death situation. I got into my first car accident on my way back from San Diego on a road trip with a friend that resulted in us flipping down a ledge that was over 10 ft. at night in the middle of nowhere. I mean, no car in sight could have witnessed this, yet we landed on all four wheels as if we were guided by guardian angels. At that moment, I could’ve panicked, but I was in so much shock I just remained calm, suddenly hearing my friend’s loud screaming that swoon me back to the reality of what just occurred. Moments into that night, at the hospital replaying the whole situation like how could a day full of fun & adventures turn into something like this? After a couple of days in California, I needed to leave right away regardless if I felt like I was hit by a bus, I had to be home, and I did just that. On my way home, experiencing even more delays I didn’t understand why I out of all people was going through this.
In all aspects of life, such events occur for a reason, and for that, I decided to not dwell on this any longer but, to make peace with it and cultivate it into something much finer. To let it go, that it had already happened and I either have the choice to remain stuck within it with my mind full of whys or move on and create space for my inner peace. I haven't looked back since.
I want you gems to understand that the past can be the past for you and what will only serve you is the present because you are capable more than ever to love you for you. Take it easy.
