Why Is Dating In My 20s A MESS?
Yeah yeah, the title itself sounds bonkers, but I swear this is the story of my life …
Recently this year, I decided not to date NO ONE & to remain on my grind lol.. easier said than done as a girly who’s been single for over 3 years now & was dating over those years.
I sure did it though 9 months in, but I caved in on the apps just to see what’s out there as I’ve been out of the game this year only committing to me. Chile.. what is going on?? Sorry to say but my tolerance for people has dropped dramatically and I mean that. Ghosting is the new way of interacting I see & “WYD” is the new spark of communication. I don’t get it, A couple of years ago I was having a blast meeting all types of men, but 2023 & dating have taken a new turn.
What’s been helping me thus far on this journey of my singleness?
Honing in my groundedness. I swear that’s what’s been keeping me sane. If it wasn’t for Mother Nature idkk where I’d be mentally.
Music. Music being a universal language, dancing around and enjoying my company to some good music has been making this year more enjoyable and I couldn’t have wanted it any other way.
Socializing & quality time with my friends + loved ones is the overall bonus to my singleness. The only people around me that I can really be free around and let loose. Ugh I love them!
RAISE YOUR STANDARDS. I think that’s why my tolerance for some men is so low.
And lastly, tapping into my creativity flow has been evolving me in every way. It allows me to cultivate my self-confidence. That’s the way to do it.
Reminder: Don’t beat yourself up because you’re single and no one is looking your way at the moment. Remember to tune into yourself and make only room for u as it will be a matter of time before you get to mutually compromise for your lover too.
Love and Grace gems~
